Zara's Dungeon

Mistress / Maitresse - The woman you serve i.e. your wife, your girlfriend etc. Betas do not send me messages referring to me as Mistress. You either have or don't have a mistress and that person certainly is not me. 

I have also heard beta males referring to their significant others as "My Queen" or "Goddess." These terms sound a little bit too obsequious for my ear - but each to their own. I also hate it when I hear betas reply " yes Mistress" after every single request that is made of them. Don't go overboard or you are going to sound like Fester out of the Adam's family. Dominant women want a strong, respectful and obedient beta male, not a fawning worm.

My pussyboy will often simply refer to me as "M." That works just fine for me. 

Ma'am - Ma'am is the correct title of respect that you should use when addressing a dominant woman that you do not know, with whom you are unfamiliar. Betas, Ma'am is the title you should use if you wish to message me and during all subsequent interactions if I choose to reply. 

Miss - Miss is the title that you should use for a dominant woman to whom you have been introduced, such as your Mistress's FLR / femdom friends. e.g. "Miss Sarah, can you please peg my ass whilst my Mistress watches?" Note - You use Miss when asking a question. You should use Miss followed by her name if there are a group of women or if you need to specify to whom you are asking the question. If Miss Sarah for example tells you to go and fix her a drink an appropriate reply could be either "Yes Miss" or "Yes Ma'am." She will tell you her preference. 

Miss vs Ms - I have had a number of interesting conversations with my feminist friends about whether Miss or Ms is the most appropriate term to use. Ms was first introduced a couple of decades ago by feminists who rightly felt that the title Miss conferred weakness, or an indication of marital status that was inappropriate, particularly when male term "master" isn't used (other than in a BDSM context) for any adult male. Miss is now strongly coming back into fashion in some circles. Miss is an authority word that's hardwired into a male's brain. Apart from their mother your male would have called all the female authority figures in his early life Miss. Sir and Miss are natural terms of respect. There is a strong argument that all females, even those who are married, should insist that they are called Miss at work and socially.